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How to Get More of What You Do Want in Life, and Less of What You Don’t

Updated: Oct 7, 2022



If I were to ask you “What do want more of in life?” what would you say? The key to manifesting more of what you do want is know exactly what you want, and pouring more energy into that. Here’s an example of a how a conversation usually goes… “I’m so sick of my job, I want to start a new career” Me: Tell me, what would that new career look like? “Well I don’t want to have to commute far, I can’t stand getting stuck in traffic. I don’t want to have to start from the bottom and work my way up, been there done that. I hate being cooped up in an office. I’m always having to ask for pay rises and never feel respected…” Ever heard this type of conversation with a friend around wanting a new relationship, more money, new career or job, a house? The thing is we become conditioned to only focus on what we don’t want.


Why? Because we are so clear on what we don’t want! It’s super charged by energy and conviction about how much we don’t want it. But the results of that is more of it. Because where focus goes, energy flows. Where energy flows, you manifest more of it.

So to begin getting more of what you DO want in life and break that old cycle, begin thinking about what it is you really want.

Sticking to the example of new career, if you don’t want to commute, what does going to work look like for you? Is it local? A train journey? From home?

If you don’t want to start from the bottom, what qualifications do you have, or what would you like to learn more about to become an expert in your field? It’s never to late to learn something new!

Don’t like the office? Where could you see yourself working? Virtually? On the road? Ca